Life Lessons from Uncle Charlie


Uncle Charlie of Two and a Half Men.  If a fan of this show, you may agree that it’s difficult not to love that swashbuckling, whisky gulping man with a heart of gold. And though the new cast is doing a good job, the show is just not the same without him. And as I watch reruns of old episodes every other evening (it’s one of the best ways to unwind after a workday), I have to come to realize that irrespective of what the character is all about, there are quite a few life lessons to be learnt from Uncle Charlie. For instance, is this gold or what:We all want the shining red apple, but sometimes we got to settle for what’s on the lower branch, or in some cases we take what’s lying on the ground.”

So here are a few life lessons from Uncle Charlie that I think we can all use.

Lesson #1: It is important to enjoy time alone.


Lesson #2: When in trouble, always call Mom.  


Lesson #3: Napping equals recharging and we all could use some.


Lesson #4: You should live life on your own terms.

Charlie: “I don’t have to face anything I don’t want to face, and I don’t have to feel anything I don’t want to feel, and that includes Mom’s vodka knockers.”


Charlie: “When the phone rings at Uncle Charlie’s house, we don’t just willy-nilly pick up the receiver and answer it. No. What we do is check the caller ID, and only pick up if we want to talk to that person.”


Lesson #5:  Everyone can be your friend. That includes your pizza delivery guy, your housekeeper and your stalker.



Lesson #6:  As the older sibling, it is your responsibility to teach stuff to your younger brother.

Charlie: “Listen, you’ve got to do me a favor.”

Alan: “That’s what I live for.”

Charlie: “Sarcasm is for winners, Alan.”


Lesson #7: It’s good to know exactly what you want from people.

Berta: “Alright, I ordered your pizza. I’m going home.”

Charlie: “Thanks, Berta. “I ordered your pizza, I’m going home.” Two of the three things you want in a woman.”

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And finally, another gem from the man:

Charlie: “No woman ever came home from a date complaining that all she did was talk about herself.”



Walking Around Singapore

Don’t you love it when you are exploring new places, and suddenly you come across a beautiful piece of architecture? Someplace not mentioned in your guide book or the handy travel phone your hotel had so thoughtfully provided?  That’s how we felt when we came across the Tan Si Chong Chu Temple in Singapore. 

While on a leisurely walk around the Clarke Quay area, we found this quaint Chinese temple, quite by accident. As we were walking around, exploring the areas close to our hotel, the traditional red exterior first drew our attention. The buildings around  it house hotels and offices, hence we were quite intrigued by it. 



Once inside, we were pleasantly surprised to have discovered such a beautiful temple. Called the Tan Si Chong Chu Temple, this 140 year old temple is a hidden gem. 


The various shrines, the detailed Chinese architecture, and the stillness in the air – all added up to make our discovery indeed very special. 




Looks like this delightful temple is somehow off the radar, which also accounts for the serene atmosphere all around. I don’t have a decent photo of it, but there’s a wishing well inside too. So throw in a coin and expect good things to happen 🙂 


photos: from my personal album


Pretty Little Notebooks



Recently I came across an anthology titled Writers on Writing: Collected Essays from the New York Times. A delightful collection of writing by literary icons, one that I particularly loved is by Mary Gordon, titled Putting Pen to Paper, but Not Just Any Pen to Just Any Paper. The author has lovingly described her notebooks – from Swedish ones in primary colors to confectionery colored ones from New Orleans, and as a writer and lover of all things colorful, I enjoyed reading about her love for notebooks and writing.

Indeed there is something oh-so-charming about notebooks, right? My Sundays are usually devoted to such indulgences as notebook shopping; and though the writing may not be happening as frequently as I would have liked it to, watching that pile of new notebooks grow taller is quite fun! 🙂


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What Matters Most


At the end of the day, how you have faced it all depends on these three:

A sense of GRATITUDE, the right ATTITUDE, and plenty of FORTITUDE. 

How wonderful will it be if you express thankfulness for all those little things that make your day brighter? I read somewhere that gratitude changes everything, and couldn’t agree more.

Do you handle roadblocks and difficult people in a gracious manner? Sure, you can’t control how others are going to talk to you or treat you. But, the thing you CAN control, is your own attitude.

And finally, do you exhibit courage, resilience, and perseverance while facing the ups and downs of the day? Whenever you fall, remember that every time, you did so, you got back up again, didn’t ya? Now that’s something to keep in mind 🙂

Thanks for reading. I hope you have a great day ahead!

(And that’s cute plant from my balcony)

Beginning Your Day Right


If we begin each morning by reading few pages from an uplifting book, it will help put a positive spin on the entire day. If practiced regularly, the key takeaway from the day’s reading will help cultivate positive emotions, and reduce the impact of negativity during the day.

Your mind gets affected by what you read first thing in the morning. Before reading the newspaper or watching the morning news, which, more often than not, can be quite depressing, it is a good practice to read a few pages, from a book that uplifts you and nourishes your soul. Often, I have heard/read about going on a “news fast”, but I think it is important to know what’s going on in the world. Hence, a better way to begin the day is by reading something which makes you feel good, perhaps Flourish by Dr. Martin Seligman, or Power of the Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy.

I have personally tried this out, and have encouraged friends to do so. Some of them have taken this up seriously, and say that it has been helpful.

Give it a shot. It’ll go a long way in training your mind to focus on what’s working in your life, think about good things and maintain a positive outlook . And who among us doesn’t want to have a nice day?